Lessons learnt

hey y'all

"Maturity comes with age, sometimes age comes alone" ( i don't remember the writer)

clearly i have grown and matured, i can happily say my maturity came with my age and its not until after High School that i became more conscious of the changes happening in my life.

For instance, i found myself telling every high school kid i know to 'soma kwa/na nguvu'. it just comes naturally.

I know it is okay to say no to stuff you don't want.

Fight for what is right. if everyone does wrong, it does not make it right.

you can choose to follow your own path even if different from everyone else.

There comes a time when people fall out, your friends move out, others just shush and you lose contact for life.
  family is very colossal.
  
you can move on from old friends if there is nothing to hold on to anymore.

That you might find yourself doing stuff you don't want but which is vital e.g working your ass off a job that does not not pay, at least not monetary-wise.

Misfortunes are very real and the real meaning of 'it does not rain, it pours'. problems will pay you a long visit sometimes and you have to deal with them, sometimes on your own.

For the larger %age, you are responsible for your own happiness.

Take it easy on your life. do not stress unnecessarily, let go once in a while, let the wind blow your hair freely as you close your eyes and feel the sensation (has a deeper meaning). in the absence of long hair, close your eyes and spread your arms

have fun in life.

never regret anything. if its happened, it has.it ain gonna reverse. 

for your own good, learn to save. money of course

 Be responsible for what God provides you with, your job, your family..you will answer to Him.

Everyday be grateful  that man  is not the giver of life.

There is true love and there is not an equal experience to it.

If you want to be rich, it is very much okay.

People close to you can hurt you, the pain is not as shocking as the act.

we will never be equal. 

Try out new stuff if its bound to make your life better.

Rules can be broken; Once in a while.

we are humans, not programmed machines. mistakes will always happen.

Don't fake it. Be real.Be you, its usually attractive.

Do Not be full of yourself, we have wiser peeps around.pay attention.

My major lesson, imma be here for a considerable period of time, therefore, imma make my stay worth the while.never take shit from people, unless its a matter of life and death.

I am more than glad at how i am turning out to be. just how happy are you with yourself?

I would be happy to know what lessons you have learnt in your life.

Thanks for stopping by. 

#notjustsaying


love, carol